The Ultimate Sexting Guide: 100+ Sexy Texts To Turn Them On Like Crazy
The Ultimate Sexting Guide: 100+ Sexy Texts To Turn Them On Like Crazy
Sexting is a brand new skill we rarely ever talk about, but it’s vital to stoke a spicy relationship in the modern, digital age.
Don’t know how to do it, or how far to go? Feeling shy or silly about it in general? Perfect. This is your one-stop, crash course on why sexting is awesome, how to navigate the process, and I also include well over 100 examples of lover-approved sexts that you can copy and paste, and start using today.
(Side note: if you are brand new to my writing, I’d also recommend you read my supplementary article Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners, that contains over 100 examples of sexy things to say to your love.)
Whether you’re just dating, or already have a partner, sexting is an amazing, never-before-had opportunity to inject eroticism and excitement into your relationship – anytime, anywhere.
With so much of our communication transitioning to messaging and social media platforms, those who are able to master the nuances of sexualizing text-based chats have a huge edge in enticing their partners and building depth in intimate relationships.
Adapting To The New Model & Learning How To ‘Pace’
Today, people who are single and looking are not only using dating apps and other online services to get to know each other, but they also have way more competition than they’ve ever had before.
Decades ago, dating multiple people and having casual sex used to be shamed and stigmatized. But now? It’s fairly standard practice. Society is far more accepting and supportive of people being promiscuous, or simply sussing out multiple people and weighing their options.
In other words, at any given time, daters can be fielding messages from multiple prospects. So how do you cut through the noise and push their emotional hot buttons so that they’re fantasizing about you, more often than not? Well, there are several things you can do (like loving your life, being sexually self-aware, and being your best self), but sexting is a big one.
The process of building rapport and comfort has also changed drastically. We now have two separate realms to build within, instead of just one. There’s the physical/in-person realm, with vocalization and touch, and the digital/text-based realm.
People who are great at building robust attraction are skilled at escalating both simultaneously, or promptly reinforcing one with the other.
For example, it’s common to feel more shy about making sexy comments and escalating things in person than over text. Since they’re not actually there, the sexting route might feel a little less intimidating. But if you’re making leading comments and flirting on your phone, and don’t have the confidence to repeat that kind of energy when you meet up in real life, this can lead to you coming across as incongruent, which makes the other person feel confused and uncertain as to which ‘you’ they should be believing.
Here’s a simple tip to keep the pacing of your erotic rapport building in check: if you take a step verbally or physically, repeat that step on the opposite platform, no matter how simple. (Ex. you told her she has stunning eyes via text, say “holy shit, photos don’t even do you justice…”, the next time you meet up. Or if you ended your date with a make out session, text him “Mmm.. still thinking about your lips… thanks for a fun night ??” later that night, or the next day.)
If you didn’t make any physical contact or overtly flirtatious comments on your first date, besides hugging https://hookupdate.net/escort-index/los-angeles/ goodbye, don’t send them a text saying, “Ughhh I wish you were sitting on my face right now.”
